If you are like most of our readers, you consider yourself a practicing Muslim. You are able to maintain a successful career, run a business, or are completing your college education. You are well liked by your family, friends, and respective community. You strive to be happy, productive, living on purpose, with your connection and faith in God being strong.
There seems to be one thing though that is weighing you down and keeping you unhappy; one dark problem that you've struggled with for many years that you cannot shake off no matter how much you try: your struggles with pornography and sex.
Maybe you feel or have felt like this reader:
I believe it's easier within my community for me to be an alcoholic or a drug addict to be accepted and receive help, than it is to be a Muslim struggling with a sex addiction.
Does This Sound Like You?
- Are you tired that your unwanted sexual behaviors are getting in the way of your relationships, and your ambitions?
- Do you feel weighed down by the insecurity, anxiety, shame and loneliness that comes from hiding your secret life and not being able to quit?
- Are you burdened by the feelings of isolation from Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala because of being unable to stop?
- Has your productivity as work or school taken a hit directly or indirectly as a result of your unwanted sexual behaviors?
You Are Not Alone
Chances are high that more than once you may have tried to reclaim your life and break free. More than once you may have tried to change with an initial burst of renewed hope and energy, but it returned to what you've experienced before – MORE of the same frustration and despair.
We want to reassure you that you are at the right place and you are not alone.
Since 2009, we've helped thousands of Muslim men and women from over 35 different countries with a wide range of sexually compulsive behaviors - from those addicted to sexual chat rooms and pornography to those engaging in anonymous sex, to those addicted to relationships and love.
We get that admitting you need help with your sexual behaviors is one of the most challenging steps you may be taking and we congratulate and honor you for being resourceful.
As a new visitor, here's where we recommend you start to overcome pornography or sexual addiction:
1. Take The Internet Sex Addiction Quiz
The first step you need to take is determine if you are at risk for pornography or sexual addiction. Perhaps you admit that you have a struggle, but you don't consider yourself addicted or may be afraid to acknowledge that reality.
Do I Have An Internet Sex Addiction?
Learn what your unwanted sexual behaviors mean in just 5 minutes.
What we are concerned with is making sure that you understand what your behaviors and symptoms could mean. Don't worry, we are not attached to you identifying yourself with any sort of negative label. By having knowledge and clarity you can make informed choices that lead you to some level of positive action, whatever that looks like for you.
2. Download The Ready For Change Worksheet
Download "Getting Ready For Change" for the 6 powerful questions you MUST answer to get your heart and mind ready for long-term freedom from unwanted sexual behaviors that hold you back from being your best self.
4. Get Started In The Purify Your Gaze Community
We've developed a proven and effective system for change that will allow you to not only bring an end to your unwanted behaviors, but most importantly allow you to engage in the process of self-discovery and address the root causes that caused the problems to begin with.
This system for change makes it easy for you as a member to receive professional and personalized guidance, find fellowship and community support with others on the path to healing, and most importantly discover the strength and hope to break free from unwanted behaviors so you can reclaim your life.
We'd love the privilege of supporting you in our program, The Purify Your Gaze Community, when you are ready to take this step.
Want To Know More?
How To Stay In Touch With Us
There are several places we post content online:
- PurifyYourGaze.com is the main place. We post new content on the blog, several times a week. Subscribe to our newsletter to get all the latest here.
- Facebook and Twitter: We are active on the Purify Your Gaze Facebook page and our Twitter page! We will let you know as soon as a new blog post is up there. We will also post inspiring stories from our members, and GEMs from the recovery trenches that have been posted in our private Community forums.
- Youtube: We are getting our Youtube channel started and should have some engaging material for you to see here.
Want to get in touch with us? Contact us here
