Brother Omar, one of my coaching clients was known as what we call, a high achieving child. Growing up, he excelled in multiple areas academically, and is on his way of becoming a doctor. Ma sha Allah. Even though he has done well in this sphere of his life, brother Omar still struggles with a …
You will never overcome your unwanted sexual behaviors until you step out of your comfort zone and face what you’re afraid of. If getting help is something that scares you, then this article should be helpful in overcoming the fear!
A lot of people are stuck in shame, despair and disgust over their sexual sins that they have been engaging in for years. They also feel unworthy in the sight of Allah and feel hung up on the ayahs that speak about purity, such as “Impure women are for impure men, and impure men are …
Br. Nabeel sought out help from the Purify Your Gaze program for his unwanted sexual behaviors. Having been engaged in watching pornography for a number of years, he hit a new low by visiting massage parlors. I asked brother Nabeel what he thought caused him to hit to a new low. “The reason why I …
Brother Tariq consistently found himself breaking rules in recovery. For many months in our work together in coaching calls, we would set up filters and boundaries to stop him from engaging in his unwanted sexual behaviors, but he was obsessed in finding loopholes and finding ways to transgress them. “I have a software that shuts …
Have you ever felt that the only time you feel close and sincere to Allah is after you relapse back to your unwanted sexual behaviors? Brother Ismail would often try to make himself feel bad about relapsing, as a way of drawing near to Allah. “Sometimes I feel that I’m the closest to Allah right …
One common mistake that those struggling with unwanted sexual behaviors make is hiding their behaviors from everyone, hoping that these behaviors will go away on their own with time. The reason why this is a mistake is because even though after a relapse, or acting out to your unwanted sexual behaviors, you swear to yourself …
Ever get hit by an urge to sexually act out and you don’t know what to do about it besides engage in your unwanted sexual behaviors or white knuckle your way through and hold it together? Sure, you may have avoided a close one but how enjoyable is this process and how long will you …
A lot of men get into marriage with the mindset of hiding their unwanted sexual behaviors from their wives. They have the following thoughts to justify their decision of not disclosing: “I am going to hide this [my unwanted sexual behaviors] from my wife, because it would devastate her.” “This is my problem. There is …
“Zeyad Ramadan help me…. I am sick of this I don’t know what to do. I’m disgusted with myself. I have lost hope with myself. I hate myself. I wish suicide wasn’t haram in Islam. I just dont want to exist anymore. If I die right now I know I’ll go to hell. I’ve my …
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