Choosing FreedomThe 8 definitive steps to successfully defeating sex and pornography addiction, getting your life back and becoming the person you've dreamed of becoming
A Few Questions BEFORE You Try To Break Free
If You Answered "YES" To Any Of These Questions,
Then You Need "Choosing Freedom"
What Is The "Choosing Freedom" Workshop?
FOLLOW THIS PROVEN AND TESTED FRAMEWORK FOR CHANGE
Choosing Freedom gives you a proven, step-by-step plan for overcoming sexual behaviors that are holding you back from being your best self and living your best life. This is the same blueprint we use with our coaching clients and the same blueprint that is changing their lives. And now, we're giving it to you...
GO BENEATH THE "OBVIOUS SYMPTOMS" AND IDENTIFY WHAT'S AT THE ROOT
During the Choosing Freedom workshop, you'll get an opportunity to go beneath the surface and identify some of the possible non-sexual reasons why you are continuing to struggle and are unable to quit. These have little to do with a "high sex drive" or being "continually triggered" or not having an "Internet filter". You'll get to dive deep.
GET INSPIRED AND FIND YOUR MOTIVATION TO CHANGE
It's one thing to be motivated to quit your behaviors because of the pain it's causing you...and it's another thing to be inspired and pulled by a grand vision for yourself and your life. One type of motivation is powerful but temporary and the other one is long-lasting.
HAVE A PLAN OF ACTION WITH THE KEY INGREDIENTS THAT LEAD TO NEW HABITS STICKING LONGTERM
It's easy to quit, but it's a lot harder to "stay quit". We've developed a process for keeping your eye on the ball that we'll share with you so you have a much better idea on when you are in a danger zone versus when you are on track.
How Does It Work
STEP 1: TESTIFY
Learn how to challenge feelings of ambivalence, laziness and fear.
STEP 3: CONNECT
Start the soul work and connect with yourself to get clarity on your patterns
STEP 5: ABSTAIN
Get clear on the habits and behaviors that are holding you back and how to quit.
STEP 7: GROW
To upgrade your life you also have to grow and upgrade your life and relationship tools.
STEP 2: PRIORITIZE
Identify how to get leverage on yourself to make this change.
STEP 4: ENVISION
Develop a compelling vision for yourself, your life and your relationships.
STEP 6: ENJOY
Discover your "zone of freedom" and what is involved in building new habits.
STEP 8: MEASURE
Learn how to measure your progress and keep a pulse on how you are doing.
Most Importantly, You'll Have A Solid Plan Of Action, As Soon As You Conclude The Workshop That Will Allow You To Pursue Long Term Strategic Change
The reason why it works is because the plan is not just focused on rooting out unwanted behaviors but most importantly helping you design your blueprint-for-life based on your deepest and most personal values and who you want to become.
It also has worked for those struggling with other behavioral challenges like overeating, video game addictions, smoking, etc. So whether you feel you have tried everything without much hope or you are just getting started, you will be able to find your steps and plan in this blueprint for change.
Positive Reviews From Workshop Participants
"Excellent steps to recovery through this workshop. The part where we have not yet dealt with the real issues behind addiction even though we may try to do activities to repel these thoughts (e.g. fasting, reciting Qur’an etc), and making us realize this is a big step towards an effective change is brilliant. Absolutely loved this! JazakAllah khair!!"Purify Your Gaze Member
"Having attended Sexaholics Anonymous for many years this workshop was definitely helpful and your website as a whole is a great breath of fresh air."Purify Your Gaze Member
"I had to slow down for a bit to keep myself from breaking down into tears. It had never even dawned on me that my addiction is the cause of my isolation from loved ones and is what’s been keeping me from living a genuine life, where I’m comfortable to be my genuine self. I used to blame everyone else around me and didn’t realize that the isolation was actually a defense mechanism against my addiction. For 12 years, I’ve tried no less than a hundred times to quit this habit, only to stumble into failure after failure. From the bottom of my heart, THANK YOU THANK YOU SO MUCH. You hit the nail on the head with this workshop."Purify Your Gaze Member
"My breakthrough was I was able to see the process from childhood to now, and how the addiction was operating. For everyone it’s different, but that pattern of primary parenting being missing, to seeking out some constant pleasure, to having that turn into an addiction and burying your emotions/self worth and self esteem into complete isolation makes A LOT of sense to me."Purify Your Gaze Member