Let's Talk About Your Best Self
Experience personalized coaching tailored to your unique challenges and goals. With one-on-one sessions, you’ll receive dedicated guidance, build actionable strategies, and gain the support you need to achieve lasting recovery. It’s not just about overcoming addiction—it’s about becoming the best version of yourself.
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Get Accountable And Follow Through
Beter Manage The Ups And Downs
Gain Massive Clarity On Your Prioirities
What We Know About the Journey
Recovery is hard work, and we don’t shy away from that truth. We’ve seen it time and again: the road to lasting change is filled with challenges, from battling inner demons to navigating complex relationships.
The key to success lies not just in the journey itself, but in the strength of your commitment to see it through. What we know from experience is that you will run into one of these three main obstacles:
- Your Motivation Will Drop After Initial Enthusiasm And That Means Either Complacency Or Burnout
- You Will Likely Fall Back On Old Habits And Experience Setbacks And That Means Feeling Hopelessness
- You Will Have Conflict With Others And That Means Being Tested And Tempted To Use Again
When this happens WHILE you are a part of a program YOU ARE LIKELY GOING TO GET THOUGHTS LIKE “THIS ISN’T working!” Or “SEE! I CAN NEVER SUCCEED!” so you think about giving up and quitting.
While Other Programs Let You Quit—We Don’t
In most programs, there’s a lot of flexibility. You’re given the luxury of scheduling whenever it suits you, with no firm commitments. But here’s the hard truth: too much flexibility often leads to low accountability. When you’re given the option to come and go as you please, it’s easy to flake out, avoid the tough conversations, and lose momentum.
Low accountability is the Achilles’ heel of most recovery programs. That’s why we do things differently. After our careful matching process, when you sign up, you’re locked in for the year. Quitting isn’t an option.
By eliminating the option to bail out, we help you build the resilience and accountability needed to truly transform your life.
Get Accountable And Follow Through
When you have someone holding you accountable and you are highly committed, that is massive leverage. Having a coach who holds you to your word is guaranteed to generate better results than anything you do on your own.
Better Manage The Ups And The Downs
If you want lasting change, you must prepare for the ups and downs that come with the recovery process. Having a coach will help push you through those rough patches, and most importantly help you celebrate and maintain your wins.
Gain Massive Clarity On Your Priorities
You can count on your coach to serve as your confidant and sounding board where you can get clear on the steps you need to take. Moreover, you can count on hearing what you NEED to hear, not just what you WANT to hear.
What Your Journey May Look Like Over The Course Of The Year
Your journey toward recovery is a comprehensive process that unfolds over the course of a year. Guided by our 8-step methodology, you’ll progress through distinct phases that address every aspect of healing—from stabilizing your life to thriving in healthy relationships. Each phase is designed to build upon the last, ensuring a holistic transformation that’s not just about achieving sobriety, but about embracing a fulfilling, purposeful life.
Phase 5. Thriving in Love and Life
The final phase of your recovery journey is about moving beyond mere sobriety to truly thrive. This is where you focus on living a fulfilling, purpose-driven life, enriched by healthy relationships and personal achievements.
Goals:
- Transition from recovery to a state of thriving in all aspects of life.
- Enhance overall well-being and life satisfaction.
- Embrace a purpose-driven life filled with joy and fulfillment.
Action Plans:
- Set and pursue long-term personal and professional goals.
- Engage in activities that bring joy, fulfillment, and purpose.
- Continue to nurture and strengthen relationships.
Phase 4. Sexual Health and Positive Intimacy
Healthy sexuality is a key component of recovery. In this phase, you’ll work on developing positive sexual behaviors and fostering intimacy that is free from the shadow of addiction.
Goals:
- Develop healthy sexual behaviors separate from addiction.
- Foster positive intimacy in relationships.
- Address sexual health concerns that may have been neglected.
Action Plans:
- Engage in sexual health education and therapy.
- Practice healthy intimacy-building exercises with your partner.
- Establish boundaries and communication strategies for sexual relationships.
Phase 3. Relationship Repair and Trust-Building
Addiction often damages relationships, but recovery is an opportunity to rebuild them. This phase focuses on repairing trust, improving communication, and strengthening your connections with loved ones.
Goals:
- Rebuild trust with loved ones impacted by addiction.
- Improve communication skills within relationships.
- Strengthen emotional and relational connections.
Action Plans:
- Participate in couples or family counseling to address relational wounds.
- Practice active listening and empathetic communication in daily interactions.
- Develop and follow a trust-building plan with loved ones.
Phase 2. Emotional Healing and Self-Regulation
Once stability is established, it’s time to delve into the deeper emotional work. This phase is dedicated to healing past wounds and developing self-regulation techniques that will empower you to handle life’s challenges without reverting to old habits.
Goals:
- Heal past emotional wounds that may contribute to addictive behaviors.
- Develop self-regulation techniques for managing emotions.
- Build inner resilience to cope with stress and triggers.
Action Plans:
- Engage in guided therapy sessions focused on trauma and emotional healing.
- Practice self-compassion and positive affirmations regularly.
- Implement stress-management techniques such as deep breathing and meditation.
Phase 1. Stabilization and Grounding
At the outset of your recovery journey, it’s essential to establish a solid foundation. This phase is about stabilizing your life, both physically and emotionally, so you can begin the process of lasting change.
Goals:
- Achieve initial sobriety from addictive behaviors.
- Establish a stable daily routine.
- Begin emotional regulation to manage cravings and stress.
Action Plans:
- Develop and maintain a consistent daily schedule.
- Identify and eliminate triggers from your environment.
- Practice mindfulness and grounding exercises to manage cravings.
What It's Like To Work With Our Recovery Coaches
Recovery is not a linear process. It’s a system of interconnected elements both internal and external to you that are all evolving at the same time. To truly heal and get outside of “survival mode”, you must consider the relationships of all these elements put together that are creating your current challenges and how to consider these different parts when designing a better quality of life.
To see it clearly, you need an outside perspective – someone who’ll call it like it is and will shine line on your blind spots. No matter how bright you are, how old you are, no matter how much you know yourself, you still have blind spots. We all do!
Here’s what you can expect when you work with your coach:
- Take An Active Approach To Recovery
“Coaching has made me take an ACTIVE approach to my recovery and it’s one of the forces that keeps me pushing toward sobriety and not wanting to turn back. Without it, I would just be coasting through life, counting the days I’ve been clean and the days I’ve relapsed. My life would still be messed up, and I was blind to how screwed up my life had become as the addiction grew.”
- Stay Accountable And On Track With What Matters To You
“The constant well of advice as well as the experiences of others has helped me, but specifically having someone to talk to and help get me on track when I’m not pulling my weight (like when I was forced to complete all the Purify Your Gaze modules or face consequences that I agreed upon with my Coach!).
- Pick Up New And Empowering Perspectives
“I don’t think I would have gone into the depths of my story, on my own, especially since I’m very shy to ask for help in direct face-to-face interactions. To be honest, I’ve never spoken about my past to anyone, nor have I gotten any counseling so this was something new for me. Coaching has provided me with a safe avenue to talk about my past and current challenges. Alhamdullillah.”
- Embrace The Truth And Become More Honest
“Coaching is making me honest. On my own, I surround myself with “right answers” and push away what’s really inside of me. Without getting coached I would not be able to get myself anywhere (unless there was a miracle that took away my ability to lie to myself so well). I’d be stuck and not even realize it.”
- Discover Your Blindspots And Hear What You Need To Hear
“Coaching has added a different perspective to my life, that I would have otherwise not been aware of. It is because of my coaching that I realized the importance of having a mentor to give you that tough love and share with you something you would never have realized on your own. It is extremely humbling…
Working with the right coach you can shine light on those blind spots and begin to understand yourself intimately and develop an even greater level of self-awareness than you have had before.
With that, you’ll be pushing forward through your biggest obstacles and achieve the goals that are important to you.
Access over 100+ hours of training resources including workshops, worksheets, and webinars to support your learning in between Your sessions.
We’ve laid out what you need to do to permanently break free from your unwanted sexual behaviors. These resources are designed to complement your sessions and help you grow. You’ll have the opportunity to learn new coping methods, understand the psychology behind motivation, and how to win against triggering situations.
Guided Worksheets And Journal Prompts
You’ll also have access to a rich library of guided worksheets and journal prompts designed to help you explore your thoughts, feelings, and behaviors.
You can share these journals with your coach as you dive deeper into your recovery.
Privately Message Your Coach In Between Sessions
Stay connected and supported even when you’re not in a session. With our program, you can privately message your coach anytime between your scheduled meetings.
Whether you have a quick question, need encouragement, or want to share a breakthrough, your coach is just a message away. This ongoing communication ensures that you remain engaged, focused, and continually progressing toward your goals.
Track Yourself And Gain Insights To Help You Change
With our 1-1 coaching program, you’re not just tracking your journey on your own. Your coach will have access to your progress tracker, allowing them to provide personalized insights and guidance based on real-time data.
This means every step you take is closely monitored, ensuring that your actions align with your goals. By using this tool, you and your coach can identify patterns, celebrate victories, and address challenges as they arise, making your path to recovery more efficient and effective.
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Talk About Your Recovery Goals With A Purify Your Gaze Coach
If you want to not only tackle the “problems” but also design an outstanding life and also experience it, then you are ready to partner with a coach! Learn about how you can apply to work with one of our Recovery & Wellness Coaches so you can experience extraordinary results in your recovery.
Step 1: Get Matched
Start by filling out our application form and placing your program deposit of $199. We’ll review your information to ensure that the 1-1 Coaching Program is the right fit for you and will reach out to discuss the next steps.
Step 2: Make A Plan
Once you’re matched with a coach, you’ll have a complimentary strategy session to outline your goals and create a personalized long-term action plan. This plan will serve as your roadmap, guiding your journey toward lasting change and ensuring you stay on track.
Step 3: Take Action!
You’ll meet regularly with your coach to review progress, tackle challenges, and make adjustments as needed. Between sessions, you’ll engage in activities, complete assignments, and apply the strategies you’ve learned. The goal is to keep you moving forward and achieving your goals.
Let's Answer Your Questions
Our recovery coaching program is distinct from traditional therapy in its proactive, structured, and long-term approach. While traditional therapy often involves open-ended, exploratory sessions, our program is highly focused on achieving specific, measurable goals over a 12-month period. We emphasize accountability, continuous progress tracking, and actionable strategies tailored to your unique needs, making it an effective choice for those committed to lasting change.
The commitment is for 12 months, and this duration is crucial for several reasons. Recovery and personal growth are long-term processes that require sustained effort and consistency. A 12-month commitment ensures you have the time to build new habits, overcome challenges, and solidify the changes you’ve made. This structure helps prevent the common pitfall of quitting too soon, which often leads to relapse or lack of progress.
Results vary depending on individual goals, but participants can generally expect significant improvements in self-regulation, emotional resilience, relationship dynamics, and overall well-being. Many clients report achieving long-term sobriety, rebuilding trust in relationships, and gaining a clearer sense of purpose. The structured nature of the program ensures that these results are sustainable, setting you up for success beyond the 12 months.
Coaches are selected based on your specific needs, goals, and preferences, as identified during the initial assessment. If, at any point, you feel that your coach isn’t the right fit, we encourage open communication to address the issue. If it’s determined that a different coach would better serve your needs, we can facilitate a switch.
It totally depends on your personalized plan. You can meet weekly, bi-weekly, or monthly with each session lasting about 45 minutes. The frequency of sessions can be adjusted based on your progress and needs, ensuring that you receive the right level of support.
Relapses can happen, and they are a normal part of the recovery process. If you experience a relapse, your coach will help you understand what triggered it, learn from the experience, and develop strategies to prevent future setbacks. The key is to stay engaged and use the tools and support available to get back on track.
It’s normal to feel uneasy about discussing sensitive topics. However, your coach is trained to create a safe, non-judgmental space where you can explore these issues at your own pace. If something feels particularly uncomfortable, you’re encouraged to communicate this with your coach, who can adjust the approach to make you feel more at ease.
All sessions are conducted online, providing you with the flexibility to meet with your coach from anywhere. This format ensures convenience while maintaining a high level of personal interaction and support.
The program starts at $199 per month, with options to add more sessions or combine with group support. We offer flexible payment plans to make the program accessible to those who are committed to their recovery journey. A $199 deposit is required to secure your spot and begin the matching process.
The program is structured to provide you with a strong foundation for long-term sobriety by addressing the root causes of addiction, developing effective coping mechanisms, and building resilience against relapse. Throughout the 12 months, you’ll work on establishing a stable routine, healing emotional wounds, improving relationships, and enhancing your overall well-being. By the end of the program, you’ll have a comprehensive set of tools and a solid support network in place, which are essential for maintaining long-term sobriety. Additionally, we encourage continued engagement with our community and resources to help you stay motivated and focused on your recovery journey.
Our coaches are highly qualified professionals with extensive experience in addiction recovery and personal development. They are trained in evidence-based practices and have a deep understanding of the challenges faced by individuals recovering from addiction. Each coach is carefully selected to match your specific needs and goals.
Upon completing the 12-month program, you’ll have developed the skills and strategies needed to maintain your sobriety and continue your personal growth journey. Many clients choose to continue with ongoing support, whether through periodic check-ins with their coach, joining a group for continued accountability, or engaging in advanced coaching sessions focused on new goals. You’ll also have access to our community and resources, allowing you to stay connected and supported as you move forward. Our goal is to ensure that you not only sustain your progress but also continue to thrive in all areas of your life.
Send us an email at info@purifyyourgaze.com or schedule a 1-1 free session with one of our Members Success Coordinators.
Ready To Live Your Best Life?
Our structured 12-month commitment is designed to help you not just overcome addiction but to completely transform your life. This isn’t a quick fix—it’s a journey toward a healthier, more fulfilled you. Your coach will be there every step of the way, providing accountability, support, and guidance to keep you moving forward and achieving your goals.
